untying the knot.

MrSo0h0o · Post by **MrSo0h0o** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 3:28 pm

i havent gone as far as marriage but ive been through one 3 yr relationship and i am currently in another 3 year relationship(i am going to marry this one).. but i lived by this quote during my hard times.. hope it comes in handy to you..

"Sometimes we need to be hurt in order to grow. We must fail in order to know. We must lose in order to gain. Some lessons are learned best through pain".

Scarrell · Post by **Scarrell** » Fri Sep 21, 2007 12:49 am

eh.. editing this.. dont post drunk kids!

jonnyb · Post by **jonnyb** » Fri Sep 21, 2007 8:50 am

sorry to hear about it.. getting out of any relationship can be tough.. but you will live.

but about the banking stuff. almost everything is payable online, and able to be setup for reoccurring payments. my advice is to do it. just make sure you got money in the bank by that day. its easy, no paper, no checks.

JeremyC · Post by **JeremyC** » Fri Sep 21, 2007 9:28 am

Yeah as much as I don't care for bank of america, they have on hell of an online banking setup. You can set it up to pay automatically, our log on, tell it how much you want to pay, and just hit enter.

I also suggest Microsoft money. It makes balancing your accounts a breeze.

Ryan from Ohio · Post by **Ryan from Ohio** » Fri Sep 21, 2007 5:07 pm

Your not alone Jared.

I told my woman to GTFO and shes going.

She thought me telling her to goto school meant goto school but dont help pay the bills or buy the food...

Can only take so much of it. Especially when I havent worked in 8 weeks and have 0 income quite literally...

Needless to say my meager savings is completely null 0 now...lol

CaptainPioneer · Post by **CaptainPioneer** » Fri Sep 21, 2007 7:12 pm

Im almost happy that i dont have woman troubles... I dont let them get close though so i never have that problem of letting them in... Some day im sure i ll have a problem similar to this though... Hopefully never though.... Just take it in stride and remember that there is always another day to start something new.

Scarrell · Post by **Scarrell** » Fri Sep 21, 2007 9:45 pm

dude... my woman(ex now).. has been to.. 3 different colleges.. quit them all.. owes i dont know how much.. will not keep a job. she had a job at a retirment home, payed like $10 an hour.. quit the next day.. why? "i dont like being around old people".. its always some lame excuse like that with every job.. nothing Really important.. just something ****ing retarded, always..as i said.. once i get my bills figured out, i can honestly see it only getting better, especially if i get a better job!

cargodz · Post by **cargodz** » Sat Sep 22, 2007 7:22 am

Everybodies breaking up and I'm going to a friend's sons wedding today... Kinda ironic

Ryan from Ohio · Post by **Ryan from Ohio** » Sat Sep 22, 2007 12:02 pm

Well were not a break up, so be relieved Mike.

Theres just a little issue of her just thinking she doesnt have to help pay bills.

cargodz · Post by **cargodz** » Sun Sep 23, 2007 5:28 am

That is a lil issue when you got zero income... And I can't say that I'm not worried about the young married couple that were just wed yesterday, since they were together month1... Then he left for 2... came back... were together for 3 months... then he leaves for Iraq for 8... (obviously he's in the service)... and now he's been back a week and a half and they are married.
She's got 3 kids, he's got 1 and nobody has had the time to really get to know one another... So I say my prayers and hope for the best.