untying the knot.

Scarrell · Post by **Scarrell** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 9:34 am

well, some of you know that i got married last year, at 21.. and now im 22, and now we are splitting up, do to.. um.. differences i guess is the best way to put it.. we have been off and on dating for 5 or so years.. so we knew each other as much as let each other know.. and the flame is gone i guess you can say..and we fought Alot.. and she was very insecure because of things, but she never really let me do anything by myself, so i never really had a chance to gain it back, but ive missed so much stuff from being married, all kinds of fun times, that maybe i shouldnt have missed if our relationship was stable enough for me to be able to go out with my buddies, but when you have both cheated, its kind of hard to gain trust back, but whatever, anyway.. im single now, and ready to mingle(sort of).. i doubt my little guy will let me have too much fun right yet, but im not lookin for a relationship for a long while.. ive been in a relationship since i was around 14 and marriage kind of topped it off and im done with that crap for now.. so its time to mess with dirty whores, lol.. once im able to be up to the challenge... hmm.. but what sucks is, now i have to learn to pay my bills on my own, i usually gave her the money, and she paid them. so i have to learn the bank account number..etc.. hecticness.. but on a good note, i have my truck..car audio.. my buddies..and ill have some extra money, since i live at home for now and i only pay for my insurance and my credit card.. (im not too good at venting as you can see..), i will keep you guys updated i suppose..

Bwcad1 · Post by **Bwcad1** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 9:36 am

welcome back to the game and sorry for your divorces.

CaptainPioneer · Post by **CaptainPioneer** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 9:44 am

Sorry about the Divorce but, each time someone walks out of your life, it just gives another opportunity for someone else to come in. The important thing is at this point, is to be with ppl who care for you and also to look out for yourself. Just remember you are still young and there are plenty of opportunities for yourself so be optimistic and look toward the future with a sense of hope.

brisgreat1 · Post by **brisgreat1** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 9:46 am

pain is strength, good luck during these difficult times

Ryan from Ohio · Post by **Ryan from Ohio** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 9:57 am

Ouch,

well just keep your head on straight and everything else will fall into place.

Scarrell · Post by **Scarrell** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 10:33 am

its all good in the hood.. im not lookin for a relationship, but i always like to meet people, so.. and ive been through it all over her so.. i mean... this for me isnt really anything hard to deal with, im sure once she decides to move on, ill get mad or somethin, but whatever.. thats how it goes.. now i can spend more time with my other wife(car audio, truck).. atleast they will do me good, and if they dont.. then i can just beat em and not worry about it, haha(and no, ive never hit a chick, but by god.. sometimes id like to throw a nice right hook at em)

pimpmaynard · Post by **pimpmaynard** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 11:45 am

making it through challenging times only produces more strength in the long run. i'm sure every minute of every day since this has been really crappy, but the other side you are refusing to see is that, at least you realized you weren't happy in the beginning rather than waiting 10 years? no children i suppose? for everything negative and poopy you are thinking and seeing, there is always a positive and a "fair" thing happening to counter balance it. it's all a matter of perspective.

snyper2k2 · Post by **snyper2k2** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 12:22 pm

ur from illinois? lol lets see a pic of her

cargodz · Post by **cargodz** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 1:09 pm

While it always hurts me to hear of 2 young people growing apart... Know that you have friends here to support you

brisgreat1 · Post by **brisgreat1** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 2:31 pm

snyper is an idiot