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getting married..

Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 4:57 pm
by Scarrell
ok so me and the ol lady are tying the knot.. need advice or any info to you married guys.. let me know! :sm29:

Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 5:07 pm
by Darthness
congrats

Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 5:13 pm
by Team AI
congrats. The best advice I can give is to keep a sense of humor.

Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 5:41 pm
by ridr4lif
Congrats Jared. Me and my old lady are planning on the same...probably sometime in september 2007. You guys have a date picked out yet?

Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 5:43 pm
by Bwcad1
good luck!

Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 5:53 pm
by Scarrell
yeah, September 14th, of this year.. im kinda nervous.. although she doesnt understand, i told her i cant explain it.. its just a guy thing.... did you married guys have that too? maybe ill be able to explain it better, im not good at all explaining things in person..

Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 5:57 pm
by Team AI
Scarrell wrote:yeah, September 14th, of this year.. im kinda nervous.. although she doesnt understand, i told her i cant explain it.. its just a guy thing.... did you married guys have that too? maybe ill be able to explain it better, im not good at all explaining things in person..

ok I never really got nervous but I know what you are going through. I don't think it's so much getting married that makes you nervous as it is the change. I think (and this is all just opinion) that men are more creatures of habit who get comfortable in a certain day to day life. It's kind of unsettling when you know that routine is going to be broken and you are unsure of what exactly is going to replace it. It's similar to starting a new job kinda and it's very natural.

Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 6:30 pm
by Jonathan
Think of it like being engaged, except you get some really nice tax and insurance deductions :thumbsup

Commitment is the key to marriage. It isn't about a feeling, feelings can be affected by what you ate for breakfast. What really matters is your dedication to make it work (and you will work at it).

Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 6:32 pm
by Team AI
that's a fact it's a full time job but it's worth the effort. My wife and I are going on 7 years and still have the ability to sit in a room or in the car by ourselves and carry on a conversation I have never let a day go by that I don't let her know that I love her and I do. I'm a lucky man and wouldn't change my wife for the world. I love her for everything she is and if you can honestly say that then you will be ok.

Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 8:31 pm
by GlassWolf
Scarrell wrote:ok so me and the ol lady are tying the knot.. need advice or any info to you married guys.. let me know!
run. run now. while you can.