yeah, September 14th, of this year.. im kinda nervous.. although she doesnt understand, i told her i cant explain it.. its just a guy thing.... did you married guys have that too? maybe ill be able to explain it better, im not good at all explaining things in person..
Scarrell wrote:yeah, September 14th, of this year.. im kinda nervous.. although she doesnt understand, i told her i cant explain it.. its just a guy thing.... did you married guys have that too? maybe ill be able to explain it better, im not good at all explaining things in person..
ok I never really got nervous but I know what you are going through. I don't think it's so much getting married that makes you nervous as it is the change. I think (and this is all just opinion) that men are more creatures of habit who get comfortable in a certain day to day life. It's kind of unsettling when you know that routine is going to be broken and you are unsure of what exactly is going to replace it. It's similar to starting a new job kinda and it's very natural.
Think of it like being engaged, except you get some really nice tax and insurance deductions
Commitment is the key to marriage. It isn't about a feeling, feelings can be affected by what you ate for breakfast. What really matters is your dedication to make it work (and you will work at it).
that's a fact it's a full time job but it's worth the effort. My wife and I are going on 7 years and still have the ability to sit in a room or in the car by ourselves and carry on a conversation I have never let a day go by that I don't let her know that I love her and I do. I'm a lucky man and wouldn't change my wife for the world. I love her for everything she is and if you can honestly say that then you will be ok.
