thats excellent for u ryan. good luck with that. it happened to me once here at school (even tho she had a b/f). we "hung out" all the time and i started realizing small things that just pissed me off. so dont go too far too quickly. it might come back to bite u in the ass later.
TEDD
I know exactly what you are talking about. I think I might have found the same thing. I just broke up with my g/f a few days ago and found someone else that I've just been "Hanging out" with and it just seems like we have everything in common. I actually can't believe it yet myself cause she seems to be way outta my league but she seems to like her too. She stayed the night last night :happy055: , but I was a good boy.
yes, i have gone through this too, similar to mercedesbends69. i was with my gf of 2 1/2 years and the last 3-4 months of it started going downhill. during that time, one of my coworkers that i had already been friends with broke up with her bf of 3 years and we began "hanging out" lol. its funny how quickly we grew on eachother and now we are like one.
i agree with ridr4lif with not moving too quickly but when it feels right, you know it. :s_thumbup
yea...im definitely the king of "moving too quickly". i was engaged, yes, engaged at age 19. we were both really happy but i was at skool and we barely spent any time together. so then one night she called me out of the blue and broke up w/ me bc she found someone else. so i slept w/ her best friend who had a crush on me out of spite (1 nite stand). she started becoming really attached even tho i had no interest in her. now things are really wierd between us and she works at the auto parts store my shop gets parts from. oh well. im now dating my g/f from 8th grade and am soo happy...lets just see what the future brings.
TEDD
"But I do know whatcha mean about moving to fast. If you get to sexual in the begining it never lasts or works (for me at least)"
That's cause you're not doing it right :) lol j/k
ridr4life, know what you mean, I was engaged when I was 18, it didn't last long. Gradually fell apart, plus the fact that I was at a college with a 6:1 girl to guy ratio, I decided I was too young for all that relationship drama (girl acting like we were married, basically) and finally soaked up the college lifestyle and start dating girls more casually. The best thing I learned was that you need to learn where you want to be in life and start achieving it, then worry about finding somebody who will compliment it. Worked best for me, anyway.
yea...the girl im dating now is great. i mean we get along real well, but she's not into cars as much as my ex-fiancee...but thats slowly changing. she really respects me and im coming to realize that thats wat is probably more important...someone who respects you and you get along with real well. i'll hopefully be moving to north carolina for an internship in a year so if were still together she wants to come with me. i hope this works out better than past relationships.
TEDD
Here's a story for you:
A good friend of mine got married last year... at 19 years old. He had been dating her since he was 16. They had some problems over the years, mainly because she can be a selfish bitch, but they seemed to work out. At the bridal shower (3 days before the wedding), his wife's uncle and cousins pull my friend aside and tell him about her. It turns out that he is told that she has epilepsy AND manic depressive disorder. The worst part is that she doesn't think she has either one and refuses to take medicine AND that her own parents didn't tell him, nor she!
You could say they have "spells" and I hear about it from time to time. Crazy stuff.
