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Tim · Post by **Tim** » Tue Feb 16, 2010 1:27 pm

Bummer man I hate to hear that. They did the same thing to a buddy of mine at work, he didnt get a return for like 2 years.

Tim

MobileAudio219 · Post by **MobileAudio219** » Tue Feb 16, 2010 2:39 pm

Oh, I see.

It sounds like shes a bit of a dead beat.

Just continue paying your child support and let your kid know that you love it, that's about all you can do at this point. If you end up paying a little more in the long run it doesn't really matter, the important thing is that your kid grows up feeling loved and wanted, even if it's just by you.

Way to many guys get them self into these situation, and way to many run from there duties.

Ryan from Ohio · Post by **Ryan from Ohio** » Tue Feb 16, 2010 4:46 pm

Theres no running in ohio.

They put a noose around your man parts and hang you.

The ONLY way to get around it in Ohio is to be a Contract worker, a tipped worker and hide tips or just not work/work under the table.

in Ohio they tell you what your paying, then they charge you 2% of that amount for having to pay child support. Then your employer witholds the money from your check and takes 2% for having to withold your money, then they give you whats left.

So I pay a 4% premium above my support order to fund the system.

Its a sore topic man.

MobileAudio219 · Post by **MobileAudio219** » Tue Feb 16, 2010 6:08 pm

Ryan from Ohio wrote:Theres no running in ohio.
They put a noose around your man parts and hang you.
The ONLY way to get around it in Ohio is to be a Contract worker, a tipped worker and hide tips or just not work/work under the table.
in Ohio they tell you what your paying, then they charge you 2% of that amount for having to pay child support. Then your employer witholds the money from your check and takes 2% for having to withold your money, then they give you whats left.
So I pay a 4% premium above my support order to fund the system.
Its a sore topic man.

Can you not just pay the child support to the ex via money order or something? I thought you only had to have it taken out of your check if you have a long history of not paying on time?

I just realized how far off topic this has gotten.. sorry!

Ryan from Ohio · Post by **Ryan from Ohio** » Tue Feb 16, 2010 6:36 pm

Not in Ohio.

If i paid her any money direct its on my back. it would hvae no effect on child support.

As far as wage garnishment thats how it goes down in Ohio for everyone.

MobileAudio219 · Post by **MobileAudio219** » Tue Feb 16, 2010 7:29 pm

Ryan from Ohio wrote:Not in Ohio.

If i paid her any money direct its on my back. it would hvae no effect on child support.

As far as wage garnishment thats how it goes down in Ohio for everyone.

That's kind of stupid.

So what happens if a couple split up but still get along, the dad pays child support for 5 years (gives the mom cash per their agreement), then the mom gets pee'd off at the dad.

Can see say he didn't pay anything that whole time or does it go by when the mom files for it?

Dads better start writing checks with proper memos!

Ryan from Ohio · Post by **Ryan from Ohio** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 4:13 am

Goes from the time they review incomes and decide how much the man should pay.

MobileAudio219 · Post by **MobileAudio219** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 1:24 pm

At least they can't totally eff you over there.

Ryan from Ohio · Post by **Ryan from Ohio** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 2:34 pm

I wouldnt say that.

They do some very underhanded things here in Ohio.