well tough times

k0rnyfr33k · Post by **k0rnyfr33k** » Mon Nov 24, 2008 12:57 am

i have been having family issues... It always seems recurring during the holidays every year... I got kicked outta my house for some dumb shit... Im tired of it, I really dont want to go back home...i want to move out for good.... Im just lost...

MaxdSPL · Post by **MaxdSPL** » Mon Nov 24, 2008 1:24 am

I will keep you in my prayers and I hope things work out for the best with you and your family. I went throught the same thing when I was younger. Not cool. But keep your chin up.

Ryan from Ohio · Post by **Ryan from Ohio** » Mon Nov 24, 2008 4:52 am

Well maybe its time to stay out then.

Its not fun and its not easy.

Best thing I can tell you is to find the cheapest apartment you can- preferably one that needs work. That way you can make it into what you want and the landlord usually deducts your materials off rent :)

Thats what I did and still do. My rent is insanely cheap also...

My mom usually has break downs around Christmas. So I feel you there.

All will work out in the end. just try to do the right thing.

cargodz · Post by **cargodz** » Mon Nov 24, 2008 11:47 am

I'm wishing you the best of luck and keeping you in my prayers.
People seem to have the best and worst emotions over the holidays and it is very often difficult with such heavy swings back and forth.

Jon · Post by **Jon** » Mon Nov 24, 2008 1:50 pm

It is hard sometimes thinking of holidays past with loved ones that are no longer with us. I know that my Dad passing years ago has stayed fresh in my mind each time I have a family function that I know he would have loved being there.

OP, I don't know you yet, but I wish you all the best. Just know that no matter how tough life gets, there are always better days ahead. Sometimes you have to be put on your ass to figure out where to go next. I have been there before. Trust me when I say get your sh!t together and worry about #1 first and foremost. You cannot be helpful to anyone if you are a burden on everyone. I was there when I was 18. I was a POS (not saying you are) and it took me a few years to grow up. I am 34 today with a decent life ahead of me. We have all been down that road and made our share of mistakes. It is what you do now that matters.

Cheers!

Tim · Post by **Tim** » Mon Nov 24, 2008 4:40 pm

absolutley, the most important thing is that you learn as you go along.

I will keep you in my prayers, and just remember when your shoulders ain't big enough to bear the load, God's are, lean on him. that is what he is there for.

Keep your head up.

Tim

MobileAudio219 · Post by **MobileAudio219** » Mon Nov 24, 2008 7:06 pm

Hey Robbie, I lost your new number but if you need anything you have mine...

Tim · Post by **Tim** » Tue Nov 25, 2008 4:30 pm

any updates??

Tim

k0rnyfr33k · Post by **k0rnyfr33k** » Wed Nov 26, 2008 5:40 am

Well, I guess all your prayers worked.... thank you all.... I dont get it, I have a talk with my dad and say look im serious in moving out i can't handle all the fighting anymore. Next day my parents beg me to come back, i just dont get it.... makes me wonder sometimes

Jon · Post by **Jon** » Wed Nov 26, 2008 6:10 am

Simple communication will fix most problems. I am glad to hear that everything is getting worked out. Don't lose focus. Keep the open dialogue and everything will work out fine.

Happy Holidays!