I can't handle it anymore

ZeroAccess · Post by **ZeroAccess** » Sat Sep 06, 2008 10:56 pm

I wish I had a guys night out...
This is my guys night out

But its all good, she came home..didn't really say anything to me
I asked "did ya have a good time?" she said "no, only went because you made me" ...yet she stayed till 12:30 ? ...pfft

so yea, I'm now drinking maragarita's and playing internet games...
I'm not gonna stress over it anymore, I can't I have enough on my plate

Ryan from Ohio · Post by **Ryan from Ohio** » Sun Sep 07, 2008 6:01 am

Oh internet games?

Find yourself some Wolfenstein ET and lets roll.

I just downloaded another game thats free called combat arms.

http://www.download.com/Return-to-Castl ... d=10243511

http://www.download.com/Combat-Arms/300 ... d=10873198

MobileAudio219 · Post by **MobileAudio219** » Sun Sep 07, 2008 12:25 pm

ZeroAccess wrote:I wish I had a guys night out...
This is my guys night out
But its all good, she came home..didn't really say anything to me
I asked "did ya have a good time?" she said "no, only went because you made me" ...yet she stayed till 12:30 ? ...pfft

so yea, I'm now drinking maragarita's and playing internet games...
I'm not gonna stress over it anymore, I can't I have enough on my plate

You should set an evening every couple of months were each one of you can go out alone with your friends or whatever...

Then about once a month or so you should get a baby sitter and go out together....

Tim · Post by **Tim** » Sun Sep 07, 2008 4:40 pm

MobileAudio219 wrote:You should set an evening every couple of months were each one of you can go out alone with your friends or whatever...
Then about once a month or so you should get a baby sitter and go out together....

not bad advice. You have to have adult couple time withtout the kids. I think it is healthy to have some time apart, but also you need time together as a couple, and then also as a family.

Tim

MobileAudio219 · Post by **MobileAudio219** » Sun Sep 07, 2008 4:55 pm

Tim wrote:not bad advice. You have to have adult couple time withtout the kids. I think it is healthy to have some time apart, but also you need time together as a couple, and then also as a family.
Tim

Exactly!

cargodz · Post by **cargodz** » Mon Sep 08, 2008 3:25 am

You may also want to look into some counseling... A 3rd party can often find the good and bad in both of you, so each knows what to work on to build a stable relationship.

I don't know if you and your wife are religious and go to church or not, but many times your pastor can be a great mediator... And it doesn't cost you a thousand an hour

MobileAudio219 · Post by **MobileAudio219** » Mon Sep 08, 2008 2:17 pm

cargodz wrote:You may also want to look into some counseling... A 3rd party can often find the good and bad in both of you, so each knows what to work on to build a stable relationship.
I don't know if you and your wife are religious and go to church or not, but many times your pastor can be a great mediator... And it doesn't cost you a thousand an hour

Good advice there.

Communication is the key, sometimes having a 3rd party can get the ball rolling a bit easier...

Tim · Post by **Tim** » Mon Sep 08, 2008 2:59 pm

MobileAudio219 wrote:Good advice there.
Communication is the key, sometimes having a 3rd party can get the ball rolling a bit easier...

Yep third parties, are unbiased, and can offer the benefit of seeing your side and hers.

Tim

MobileAudio219 · Post by **MobileAudio219** » Mon Sep 08, 2008 3:34 pm

Tim wrote:Yep third parties, are unbiased, and can offer the benefit of seeing your side and hers.
Tim

Toss in an extra 20 and they will convince your wife thats shes always in the wrong!

Tim · Post by **Tim** » Mon Sep 08, 2008 4:02 pm

MobileAudio219 wrote:Toss in an extra 20 and they will convince your wife thats shes always in the wrong!

Yet another advantage, to the third party.

Tim