I can't handle it anymore

ZeroAccess · Post by **ZeroAccess** » Sat Sep 06, 2008 1:41 pm

I swear, I want to just ****ing leave.
My wife leaves this morning at 11aclock to go to a baby shower then she's going to the bar tonight.
I've been cleaning all god damn day, sold my Xbox for some extra money, go to cook and the flies are driving me ****ing nuts because food gets left out all over the place...
So I cook speghetti....
give my daughter a plate go to the kitchen to get something to eat...
tell my daughter to keep the flies off my food and she's like
"there is a fly on it" I yell at her to shoo it away..and by then I'm too mad...
grab the plate and threw speghetti all over the ****ing kitchen....

I can't handle this anymore....
I'm seriously snapping

Bwcad1 · Post by **Bwcad1** » Sat Sep 06, 2008 2:15 pm

sounds like a perfectly respectable way of responding to a situation. now before you do something else irrational and stupid go sit down on your counch and take 5 deep breaths. now think about how your daughter feels and go apologize. go sit down and relax again and speak to your wife like an adult.

i may sound like a serious asshole here and its probably not what you want to hear, but its the right thing.

Darthness · Post by **Darthness** » Sat Sep 06, 2008 2:18 pm

agreed. hell, if possible, leave and go do something you like. enjoy your self.

shit, worst come to worst, just go to a park and fap in the bathroom.

ZeroAccess · Post by **ZeroAccess** » Sat Sep 06, 2008 2:59 pm

I called her mom, told her to get here and just walked around for a bit.

I talked to my daughter and apologized to her. I told my wife I can't do this anymore, I'm tired of fighting to get the moldy food picked up...I'm tired of smelling cat shit in my bedroom...
I'm just tired...

Ryan from Ohio · Post by **Ryan from Ohio** » Sat Sep 06, 2008 4:13 pm

Sounds like its time for a maid or divorce.

NorthQuad · Post by **NorthQuad** » Sat Sep 06, 2008 4:16 pm

Sorry life's rough for you right now man.

ZeroAccess · Post by **ZeroAccess** » Sat Sep 06, 2008 4:35 pm

Hell we just got married lol..
She got mad at me and was like "you never clean" I told her I quit picking up all her crap!!
I was like look around, whose stuff is everywhere, I had ONE cup of water out and she focused on it o_O ..
was like grrrrrrr

Its all good, gotta go through bad times so that you appreciate the good times

Tim · Post by **Tim** » Sat Sep 06, 2008 6:11 pm

Bwcad1 wrote:sounds like a perfectly respectable way of responding to a situation. now before you do something else irrational and stupid go sit down on your counch and take 5 deep breaths. now think about how your daughter feels and go apologize. go sit down and relax again and speak to your wife like an adult.

i may sound like a serious asshole here and its probably not what you want to hear, but its the right thing.

Bill is full on right. I have learned with our little boy, that they don't understand the things that go on from day to day. To them when we holler and yell it is their fault. And it isn't, but they don't understand that.

You and your wife need to have a good long heart to heart, and let her know what is going on, and how you feel. How long have you been married?

How old is your daughter.??

Tim

ZeroAccess · Post by **ZeroAccess** » Sat Sep 06, 2008 7:00 pm

Been married only 2 months been together 4+ years
Daughter is 6

I typically stay pretty resolved around her, just couldn't handle it today. I'm not certain why i snapped but man I snapped...
Like right now my wife is at the bar I just told her to go, because she'd whine and complain if she didn't get to go...does it bother me...well yea, I don't think its right that a female is out at a bar on a saturday night till midnight...She just says I'm controlling her.

MobileAudio219 · Post by **MobileAudio219** » Sat Sep 06, 2008 9:39 pm

ZeroAccess wrote:well yea, I don't think its right that a female is out at a bar on a saturday night till midnight...She just says I'm controlling her.

Ehhh...

She might be right!

I'm sure you have a guys night out every now and again, so its only fair shes gets to go out with her friends every once and a while...

You guys need to take a little time for yourself, its healthy... Otherwise you end of feeling stressed and fight all the time... Oh wait! :help: