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William tell your friend to get out!
If he is unhappy its just not worht it!

Im hoping for myself this one turns out!

Its important that you figure out what you want out of life. More importantly you need to know what your willing to put into life to get what you want out of it.

Once you do that you need to grab life by the horns and wrestle it around. You will win, but it may take time.

Right now I have a hold of the horns, just trying to figure out how to wrestle it to the ground.

I also had the "to young" engagement. I did so when I was 19 she was 17. Was pretty much a good situation I thought. In the end I learned the truth of the situation. Consequently its been hard for me to trust a woman since. My ex of 5+ years strengthened this distrust. But if I want to go forward I need to free my prejudice, which I can and will.

Dont know about you all, but Im ready for my happy ending!

BTW if we do go its next weekend. We want sun, warmth, convertible and a beach. Never been to Florida or the ocean...

Epilepsy a.k.a. seizure disorder. It really sux. i have an acute case of epilepsy. Strobe lights, high stress and not getting enough sleep can cause siezures. No drinking w/ my meds bc it can be fatal. Neways, some people dont have epilepsy as bad as some ppl. I'm lucky, havent had a seizure since 2nd grade at disney world (am now in 3rd year of college), but some people have multiple seizures a day.
TEDD

whats epilepsy? rings a bell but i dont know any specifics.

That sucks for him. I had a friend that dated a girl with OCD, so that aggravated the hell out of him. She'd wash her hands like 6 times, check the coffee pot, iron, all that multiple times before going somewhere, I can only imagine going out with a girl like that.

By the way Ryan, why don't you come to New Orleans? It's Mardi Gras time! I'll be riding on the coast guard float in Endymion this saturday!

Here's a story for you:
A good friend of mine got married last year... at 19 years old. He had been dating her since he was 16. They had some problems over the years, mainly because she can be a selfish bitch, but they seemed to work out. At the bridal shower (3 days before the wedding), his wife's uncle and cousins pull my friend aside and tell him about her. It turns out that he is told that she has epilepsy AND manic depressive disorder. The worst part is that she doesn't think she has either one and refuses to take medicine AND that her own parents didn't tell him, nor she!

You could say they have "spells" and I hear about it from time to time. Crazy stuff.

yea...the girl im dating now is great. i mean we get along real well, but she's not into cars as much as my ex-fiancee...but thats slowly changing. she really respects me and im coming to realize that thats wat is probably more important...someone who respects you and you get along with real well. i'll hopefully be moving to north carolina for an internship in a year so if were still together she wants to come with me. i hope this works out better than past relationships.
TEDD

"But I do know whatcha mean about moving to fast. If you get to sexual in the begining it never lasts or works (for me at least)"
That's cause you're not doing it right :) lol j/k

ridr4life, know what you mean, I was engaged when I was 18, it didn't last long. Gradually fell apart, plus the fact that I was at a college with a 6:1 girl to guy ratio, I decided I was too young for all that relationship drama (girl acting like we were married, basically) and finally soaked up the college lifestyle and start dating girls more casually. The best thing I learned was that you need to learn where you want to be in life and start achieving it, then worry about finding somebody who will compliment it. Worked best for me, anyway.

yea...im definitely the king of "moving too quickly". i was engaged, yes, engaged at age 19. we were both really happy but i was at skool and we barely spent any time together. so then one night she called me out of the blue and broke up w/ me bc she found someone else. so i slept w/ her best friend who had a crush on me out of spite (1 nite stand). she started becoming really attached even tho i had no interest in her. now things are really wierd between us and she works at the auto parts store my shop gets parts from. oh well. im now dating my g/f from 8th grade and am soo happy...lets just see what the future brings.
TEDD

yes, i have gone through this too, similar to mercedesbends69. i was with my gf of 2 1/2 years and the last 3-4 months of it started going downhill. during that time, one of my coworkers that i had already been friends with broke up with her bf of 3 years and we began "hanging out" lol. its funny how quickly we grew on eachother and now we are like one.

i agree with ridr4lif with not moving too quickly but when it feels right, you know it. :s_thumbup

Randy