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Best advice, no advice.

Just do what feels right thinking a little down the road.

This might sound cruel...
But remember "give her an inch and..." Well, hopefully she'll just take an inch.
I love my wife because she's NOT the stereotypical ball-and-chain type, she doesn't want to "conform me" to some... thing.

And we're happy, because I know how to put my foot down. And honestly, she knows how to put her foot down too. And most of the time, we just naturally click - same interest, common goal, same agenda.

If not for that, there would be no peace... and certainly no peace of mind.

I don't know as if this is "advice" - but if you are used to a lifestyle of "yes dear" - that I can't relate to. "Yes, I'm with you on that one..." that I can understand. Know what I mean?

Maybe some people can live that way, I don't know - but I'm sure you've already done all that soul-searching, lifestyle-changing, self-questioning stuff already, so you know she's the right one.

And congratulations on that for sure!

Married life is a fantastic thing, truly.

two simple words and you will live long and prosper..."Yes dear."

also, since we as husbands are supposed to pamper our wives every day of the year and mostly on their birthday, our anniversary and Valentines Day, married men all around this world have established a day for us.

Steak and Blowjob Day. March 20th is designated Steak and Blowjob Day and let me tell you, it works...4 freakin days later...wait..nope...still trying to get her to do that...damn...nope..well here it is 8 days after and I have had the steak, but no damn BJ!!!! WTFFFF!!!!!

yea, you will like being married.

Scarrell wrote:ok so me and the ol lady are tying the knot.. need advice or any info to you married guys.. let me know!

run. run now. while you can.

that's a fact it's a full time job but it's worth the effort. My wife and I are going on 7 years and still have the ability to sit in a room or in the car by ourselves and carry on a conversation I have never let a day go by that I don't let her know that I love her and I do. I'm a lucky man and wouldn't change my wife for the world. I love her for everything she is and if you can honestly say that then you will be ok.

Think of it like being engaged, except you get some really nice tax and insurance deductions

Commitment is the key to marriage. It isn't about a feeling, feelings can be affected by what you ate for breakfast. What really matters is your dedication to make it work (and you will work at it).

Scarrell wrote:yeah, September 14th, of this year.. im kinda nervous.. although she doesnt understand, i told her i cant explain it.. its just a guy thing.... did you married guys have that too? maybe ill be able to explain it better, im not good at all explaining things in person..

ok I never really got nervous but I know what you are going through. I don't think it's so much getting married that makes you nervous as it is the change. I think (and this is all just opinion) that men are more creatures of habit who get comfortable in a certain day to day life. It's kind of unsettling when you know that routine is going to be broken and you are unsure of what exactly is going to replace it. It's similar to starting a new job kinda and it's very natural.

yeah, September 14th, of this year.. im kinda nervous.. although she doesnt understand, i told her i cant explain it.. its just a guy thing.... did you married guys have that too? maybe ill be able to explain it better, im not good at all explaining things in person..

good luck!

Congrats Jared. Me and my old lady are planning on the same...probably sometime in september 2007. You guys have a date picked out yet?