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just saying whats up.
Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 11:50 am
by cheapaudio
whats up gang.. long time no type.. its good to be back on here. but other than that its been bad luck after bad luck.. first, i lost my job for about 4 weeks,, but right after i lost my job the ole lady divorced me. got booted out of the house.. now im staying at my cousins till i get enuff money for a place to live,, cashed out my 401K , but the court system has it,, saying that shell be gettin half of it.. so i cant touch it for a while.. but still ,, gonna be hard to survive cuz ive got to pay $700 a month in child support.. fixin to loose one of my bikes cuz i cant make the payments anymore. and prolly have to sell one of my 4 wheelers for some extra cash.. basically got took for everything i had.. but other than that ,, hows everybody else doing?
Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 3:11 pm
by MobileAudio219
I dont want to sound like an ass, but in today's society couples are quick to get married, and quicker to get divorced... It sucks for you, but such is life...
Live in learn, then get luv's...
Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 5:16 pm
by Ryan from Ohio
I feel your pain. I pay out over $700 a month in Child Support myself.
Didnt you guys just buy a house? Man that sucks...
And its BS she will get half of your 401K. Why should she get half?
I will be checking into a prenup for sure...
Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 5:32 pm
by NorthQuad
Ouch. Really.
Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 10:58 pm
by cheapaudio
well we was married for 10 years.. and had 4 kids.. guess we had a good run at it. im intitled to half her 401k when she draws it out but that could be when im dead and gone.. and the judge granted her my van thats in my name so if she dont make the payment it hurts my credit,, atleast my tunes are still working... get on a back road and make my eyes shake and forget bout the drama,, hell yea.
and thanks to bill for my half death penalty and half wolfpack 18,s are still bumpin strong.
Posted: Wed Mar 25, 2009 1:06 pm
by falkenbd
she might have to pay you half of her 401k when the divorce occurs, not when she withdraws it. basically you split all assets at the time of divorce.
if she decides to live in the house, well you are entitled to half of that asset. so if you have any equity you get half.
sorry to hear about the bad luck.
Posted: Wed Mar 25, 2009 5:14 pm
by Tim
Dang dude its been for ever since I seen you on here. Bummer about the stuff you goin through though.
Really does suck. Hope it gets better for you buddy.
tim