Girlfriend wants to go with guy friend of hers to his senior prom

Ryan from Ohio · Post by **Ryan from Ohio** » Wed Jan 18, 2006 12:26 pm

Dude you have morew women problems than me.

Boot her ass!!!

Post by **GlassWolf** » Wed Jan 18, 2006 1:09 pm

oh for god's sake.
this is like an episode of jerry springer.

If you're that insecure, you've got problems.
If you trust her, there shouldn't be any problem.
If you don't trust her, then you have the problem.
simple as that.

you don't own her, or control her life. she's not wearing a ring.
if she wants to help a friend and go to some retarded prom, that's her business. Grow a pair and stop stressing over it.

Geez.

Thank god I'm not young anymore. Those of you who are, I feel for ya. Life gets so much easier when you get older and more self confident, and less suspectible to peer pressure and self-doubt. You stop sounding like a mis between a bad Emo song and an episode of Jerry.

Post by **GlassWolf** » Wed Jan 18, 2006 1:16 pm

"that's what I love about highschool girls.. I keep getting older, and they stay the same age."

Jonathan · Post by **Jonathan** » Wed Jan 18, 2006 1:16 pm

Now that you said ex boyfriend, that COMPLETELY changes the scenario. Big fat no. And engagement is also a big fat no. I was in the EXACT situation you're in when I was around 18, except it wasn't prom, it was doing stuff "as friends". I thought I was pretty serious about the girl and was thinking about marriage and so on, good old young love airheadedness. Anyway, I starting thinking with my head (the right one) and dumped her before I got any humiliation out of it. And I'm glad I did. She ended up with the guy, has 4 kids and the guy still makes barely over minimum wage toting nails up a ladder for a construction company, and she's unhappy as hell. My point is that you really need to wait before getting really serious in a relationship. One of the biggest things that determines the success of a relationship is the sharing of common goals and finding a partner that will help you attain them, and you really aren't going to know that until a person gets out into the world and starts to bust ass for themselves.Trust is also crucial, which obviously seems to be lacking in your relationship, and if this situation were to turn for the worst, it's the type of trust that will never be fully regained. You're too young and have too much to look forward to to have to worry about things like this, plenty of fish in the sea. You may not see that now, but you'll know it when you're as old as some of us.

Assuming that this guy had a genuine problem getting chicks, I'll give you some advice. Take the guy to a club and tell him to give you all the money in his wallet. Then tell him once he gets rejected by 10 women, he can have his money back. MAYBE by then the guy will grow enough balls to be able to be self sufficient and get his own damn girlfriend. Maybe he'll get some numbers in the process, IDK. It's all about confidence. No girl likes some stuttering idiot asking them out.

Mithrandir · Post by **Mithrandir** » Wed Jan 18, 2006 2:43 pm

Jonathan wrote: Assuming that this guy had a genuine problem getting chicks, I'll give you some advice. Take the guy to a club and tell him to give you all the money in his wallet. Then tell him once he gets rejected by 10 women, he can have his money back. MAYBE by then the guy will grow enough balls to be able to be self sufficient and get his own damn girlfriend. Maybe he'll get some numbers in the process, IDK. It's all about confidence. No girl likes some stuttering idiot asking them out.

i could careless about his girl problems, if me and her break up over this he is getting hospitalized

thats me being immature and just not fucking sane.

William from NOLA · Post by **William from NOLA** » Wed Jan 18, 2006 3:02 pm

mith, you need to find the subtle ways of screwing people over

stephensmia · Post by **stephensmia** » Wed Jan 18, 2006 3:12 pm

Yea like blow his car up. Leave no Evidence

MobileAudio219 · Post by **MobileAudio219** » Wed Jan 18, 2006 3:12 pm

William from NOLA wrote:mith, you need to find the subtle ways of screwing people over

haha

And mith, no matter how you look at it you're screwed. Either you have an issue with trust and need to break it off with her until you get that problem resolved, or she has already gave you a good reason not to trust her so theres no point to continue this relationship because shes just a cheating hooker.

Ryan from Ohio · Post by **Ryan from Ohio** » Wed Jan 18, 2006 3:28 pm

Oh this is her ex boyfriend whom she was engaged to? Highschool? what?

I would leave the choice to her. No sense in beating yourself up about it. Tell her:

"Goto prom with him were done"

Let her decide. Also explain to her that you are concerned. Lets face it, its prom. Them dresses and legs go up.... Its PROM!!!!

Mithrandir · Post by **Mithrandir** » Wed Jan 18, 2006 3:33 pm

Ryan from Ohio wrote:Oh this is her ex boyfriend whom she was engaged to? Highschool? what?

I would leave the choice to her. No sense in beating yourself up about it. Tell her:

"Goto prom with him were done"

Let her decide. Also explain to her that you are concerned. Lets face it, its prom. Them dresses and legs go up.... Its PROM!!!!

no she wants to get engauged to me