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Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 5:54 am
by racerraul
Honestly...
You said X-boyfriend of hers... And you said 4 months together... Brother there aint no chic in the world that would put up with their man feeling sorry for an x-girldfriend...
Sure, sure there might be some exceptions... but why does it have to be your girl???
If the guy was a true friend, he'd have some consideration for her feelings for you and wouldn't want to interfere in her affairs. But that aint the case now is it? Looks to me like she is more concerned about his feelings & he is concerned about his prom & you are left in the gutter regardless...
I'd tell her to renew their relationship & quit feeling sorry for him & go find you another girl... Think how nice it would be to find someone willing to please you then trying to make someone understand why your feelings should be more important to them...
Good Luck man...
Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 5:57 am
by Bwcad1
Ok Now That I Got All The Info On This This Would Be A Big No In My Book This Whole Situation Has Shady Written All Over It But If You Do Decide To Let Her Go. Go Out And Do Something Of Equal Importance Go To The Club With A Girl Friend (actual Friend Who Is A Girl) And See How She Takes That. Or Go To A Booby Bar
Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 6:00 am
by racerraul
Bwcad1 wrote:Or Go To A Booby Bar
Best damn advice on the thread...
Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 6:02 am
by smoker
ok dude......let me tell you this and you can ask ryan if you dont believe it....im like 6'1" or so go about 240 lbs. and i am an ugly mofo.......i have been with some very hot chics and its got nothing to do with looks and everything to do with my attitude.......
secondly engagement ring and prom should never EVER EVER be part of the same conversation.......i dont know how old you are but i swear to god man, i wish i had a nickle for every girl at my high school that had a promise ring or engagement ring and didnt last the semester with the dude.....im not knocking you but im just gonna say the obvious point that is being avoided here......dump her.....plain and simple.....i know you like her and all but if you are on here asking us what to do about her wanting to go to prom with another dude you dont trust her and she has no respect for you.....dump her....the "birthday" party is another good example...you know what you heard, your brain doesnt automatically insert words into conversations to keep you from getting your feelings hurt.....sounds like she lied.....dump her and go out and do a little booty bangin and youll feel a lot better......
Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 6:07 am
by Bwcad1
i have to agree with terry i have gotten some hot chicks and im ugly as shit. its all attitude and well to be honest my money lol. girls dig what they cant have. and if you dont have the upper hand in this relationship your toast. girls like a challenge and they for some reason they like it when you dont treat them like a princess. this has worked for me in the past and continues to do so. WOMEN WANT WHAT THEY CANT HAVE! so make her think she cant have you.
Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 6:08 am
by MobileAudio219
Don't worry smoker, we all believe that you're ugly!
Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 6:09 am
by smoker
i have to agree with terry i have gotten some hot chicks and im ugly as shit. its all attitude and well to be honest my money lol. girls dig what they cant have. and if you dont have the upper hand in this relationship your toast. girls like a challenge and they for some reason they like it when you dont treat them like a princess. this has worked for me in the past and continues to do so. WOMEN WANT WHAT THEY CANT HAVE! so make her think she cant have you.
exactly.....there is a fine line between being an ass and being a confident ass.......
Don't worry smoker, we all believe that you're ugly!
your just lucky you aint a chic or id use my animal magnetism and make you want me and then deny you.........
Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 6:28 am
by OnYrMrk
Ok...now my .02 cents...
#1 She doesn't respect you
#2 She would rather be with her ex than you
#3 Terry is an ugly mofo and a confident ass
#4 Bill treats his women without alot of respect
#5 I ramble on aimlessly cause of half-heimers disease
#6 Life goes on..expecially for the young...like you
#7 She doesn't respect you
#8 She would rather be with her ex than you
#9 Terry is an ugly mo.....hmmm
#10 You really know life is over for you when you start repeating yourself
In all seriousness. You have your whole life ahead of you. Sounds like you are in your mid to late teens. Don't get married until you have experienced life a little bit. Women will respect you more, you will learn to respect them more, and life gets a little bit more bearable. I waited until I was in my 30's before getting married. I have never been more happy than I am right now. Enjoy life, let this female go...find one that just enjoys being with you...not in love with you...let the relationship grow through friendship and you never know, you could marry your best friend like I did. BTW...She was still in HS and I just got into College when we met. 15years later, we got married.
Life is designed to throw loops and dips to confuse you and to frustrate you. It is how you get through them that makes you a better man.
if you need to talk, pm me. We wouldn't be here posting this for you if we didn't care. I am sure any one of us would be happy to chat if you needed us.
Joe
***EDIT: Bill is really a nice guy who treats his women with the utmost respect...and blows all his cash on them***
damn I am evil....LOL
Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 6:43 am
by Bwcad1
lol its not that i treat my women bad its just that if you let them think they have you in the palm of there hand they get bored and a bored women is no fun!
Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 6:52 am
by sinister audio
ya i would have to say no dice to here going to the prom and if she has a big problem let go but dont be with her anymore sounds like she still really likes the guy.