NViejeP wrote:Yah but the hard part is waking up from like 6 hours of sleep, going to 6 hours of work, and then 2 hour sof hard football practice where we just weight lift and condition.
Seriously, if this is bad to you, you better stay your age for the rest of your life.
In the real world you work, and you work a lot... 40+ hours a week, then all the other responsiblities of being an adult. THen have kids...
CaptainPioneer wrote:then again its a blessing that you have 3 kids u are fortunate my buddy has been trying for about 4 years now, Cant get his wife pregnant, its kinda sad he has always wantted kids
is she hot? apparantely my stuff is lively so maybe i could help out.....
Yah but guys, this is my summer. I'm going to be a junior, you guys all were in my position too. I got to enjoy what I can, I know life will get harder, but thats just the way it is. I'm trying to enjoy it while I can. I'm living in the present
wtf? sorry dude but personally shit like that pisses me off....when i think about all the people that my family has lost and how much they are missed and how there were special people in my life that my kids will never know, to hear you talk like that is beyond me...when i was a kid there were 4 generations all living in the same house, my great grandma, my grandma and grandpa, my mom, me and my brother......we were all pretty close and when i was 13 my grandma died on christmas morning......there isnt a day that goes by that i dont still think about it...that i dont still wish she was here or how much she would love my kids and she never even got the chance to see me grow up much less my kids.....your not just here for yourself man....you are here for God, family, friends, anyone who cares about you....if your that unhappy with work- get a new job....if its where you live- move.....if its your girlfriend, friends, car, whatever you can make changes.....10 years ago i was married to the biggest whore on the planet, i couldnt walk out the door without her sleeping with someone....it damn near ruined me financially, i lost my house, my truck, and for a while any self respect......now im remarried, new house, car is paid for, more kids....make changes
Well said smoker, And this is getting deep into ppls lives. Mithrandir you need to realize these are all only tempary problems and the way it sounds like your talking you don't want an unessary perment solution that you can never change. It times like these that make you who you are. And remember life is to short and fun to let little bumps mess it up. Like it said What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. Or If it woman life If you love something let it go if it comes back it never was (NOT SURE WHO THESE QUOTES came from)
But man your young and have the world ahead of you times will get though you just have to make it trough it. Take a vaction, see a srink what ever because everyone is very imortant to some body and would hate to see that person suffer.
Mithrandir wrote:personally im sick of life and dont care what happens. lol
Honestly it sounds like your problems are bigger than just being unhappy with your job. I agree with the other people on here and suggest that you talk to a qualified therapist. Feel free to PM me.
Please don't say you are sick of your life and don't care what happens...it kills me when people talk like that. There are people in this world that have it a hundred times harder than you, and still keep going everyday, even with a positive attitude. Heck I know some of them. I work 8-10hours everyday, 5days a week, and I couldn't even begin to complain. My brother works 12-14hour days, sometimes 7days a week, has a four year old and a wife with cancer who complains to him everyday, he's 22 and stressed to hell, so how can I possibly complain about working a whopping 45hours a week?
Just take a step back and realize that you need to appreciate yourself, your life, the people around you, and you really dont have it as hard as you think you do.
