is your uncle an electrical engineer?
I am.
let me clue ya both in here.
house current is AC. car systems are DC.
this makes a huge difference in the amount of heat you're going to create drawing large amounts of current through the cable.
This is also why speaker wire, which is high voltage AC, is so small compared to the power wire supplying the amplifiers.
Remember high power car audio systems can draw over THREE HUNDRED AMPERES OF CURRENT continuously. House circuits are usually 60A at most, and that can handle 3 or more rooms of the house.
Think about that one for a moment.
The use this chart to give you a feel for wire sie requirements:
http://www.the12volt.com/info/recwirsz.asp
read this to learn more about electrical principles than your uncle apparently knows:
http://www.bcae1.com/wire.htm
and finally, read this to learn more about battery types:
http://www.wickedcases.com/HT/batteries.html
hope this clears up any doubts ya had.
using too small of a wire for power will cause clipping in your amplifiers, as well as extreme heat build-up which can melt the cable insulation and cause a short, and subsequent fire. Unless you really want to play with setting your car on fire, or destroying your amps and speakers, I'd recommend strenuously that you use the right size cable.