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by Jon » Fri Apr 17, 2009 12:13 pm

Ryan from Ohio wrote:Truth be told both were accidents/unplanned.

#1 My ex girlfriend decided to stop taking birth control.

#2 One time lapse of judgment.

I have no shame in admitting it.

My first kid was unplanned. I just was too lazy to wrap my shit. I was a dumb kid that wanted to get some. Thought pulling out was a good idea. I decided to marry her. I thought it was the "right thing to do". We had two more planned children. She turned out psycho. I divorced the bish.

The End.

by Ryan from Ohio » Fri Apr 17, 2009 11:18 am

Truth be told both were accidents/unplanned.

#1 My ex girlfriend decided to stop taking birth control.

#2 One time lapse of judgment.

I have no shame in admitting it.

by CaptainPioneer » Fri Apr 17, 2009 8:53 am

Hehe sorry to get a little off topic here but I just got back to this thread after reading Palin's Speech at an Anti-Abortion rally dinner... Hehe I bet if she read this she might think a little more about un-planned pregnancies...

Not to say that yours were accidents and what not... Hmmm

Welp If i crossed a line, I will retract and go hide in a hole for a while...

by MobileAudio219 » Fri Apr 17, 2009 7:13 am

Bwcad1 wrote:Sounds like exactly what happened.
Bitching and moaning after the deed is done is useless. Regardless of what the consequences are you should know them before putting yourself in any situation.
I apply the same thinking to carrying a loaded firearm. If i have to use that i want to know every thing that could potentially happen if i am forced to use it. I study the ORC's and check for update's weekly. Taking life and creating life is the same really. Either way your ****ed.
Thats one way of putting it...

I know accidents happen, you just have to man up and do the right thing.

Sounds like he's Ryan is trying, sometimes the right way isnt the easiest way.

by Bwcad1 » Fri Apr 17, 2009 6:34 am

Jon wrote:That would be a best case scenario, but when you have sex with some random chick and knock her up, you are risking that she will not be so lenient.

I am not saying that is what you did Ryan, but I know quite a few guys who put themselves in that exact situation.
Sounds like exactly what happened.

Bitching and moaning after the deed is done is useless. Regardless of what the consequences are you should know them before putting yourself in any situation.

I apply the same thinking to carrying a loaded firearm. If i have to use that i want to know every thing that could potentially happen if i am forced to use it. I study the ORC's and check for update's weekly. Taking life and creating life is the same really. Either way your ****ed.

by Jon » Fri Apr 17, 2009 6:32 am

falkenbd wrote:How about if the parents act like adults. Taking the kids 50% of the time each. That way each parent contributes 50% in day-to-day child raising and expenses. When it comes time to buy clothes and school supplies, they act like adults and go to the store together and split the bill. Otherwise when one goes shopping, they compare receipts and make up the difference.

I grew up in this situation, and I wish my parents were civil towards each other when I was younger. It seems like it took them until I was in high school to pull their heads out of their @sses.

That would be a best case scenario, but when you have sex with some random chick and knock her up, you are risking that she will not be so lenient.

I am not saying that is what you did Ryan, but I know quite a few guys who put themselves in that exact situation.

by falkenbd » Fri Apr 17, 2009 5:39 am

How about if the parents act like adults. Taking the kids 50% of the time each. That way each parent contributes 50% in day-to-day child raising and expenses. When it comes time to buy clothes and school supplies, they act like adults and go to the store together and split the bill. Otherwise when one goes shopping, they compare receipts and make up the difference.

I grew up in this situation, and I wish my parents were civil towards each other when I was younger. It seems like it took them until I was in high school to pull their heads out of their @sses.

by MobileAudio219 » Thu Apr 16, 2009 8:17 pm

Here's what I have learned from stories like this...

If you have a kid and things don't work out between you and the mom, you pretty much know you're going to get a-raped, you just have to pray they atleast use a little lube.

I do believe that whoever doesn't have the kid should have to pay child support, but the mom and dad should split the cost evenly...

by Mithrandir » Thu Apr 16, 2009 6:11 pm

Jon wrote:$450/mo is not average for a guy making less than $40k per year. That is over 20% of his take home income. Sorry, but that is exorbanant IMO. He could get that down to the $200 ~ $250 / month range with a good lawyer.



Yep, chit like that happens all the time. That bish will rot in hell for that crap. Dude can do nothing about it either. I hope he learned his lesson about giving bishes cash.

I was screwed over like that once myself. Not the exact same thing, but similar enough to say you just got to pay up and move on. Lesson learned the hard way.
Umm dude i know plenty of guys making 30k and under that have to pay 450 or more a month child support for one kid.... maybe in your area it isnt but it is in PA

by Ryan from Ohio » Thu Apr 16, 2009 5:28 pm

Yeah I have a shared parenting for my daughter.

#2's mom was already a welfare sucker, now shes just a sucker with more money- my money. lol

She wont agree to less money, she was after more...

My only salvation at this point is to get the support reduced due to my lack of work available.

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